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Non Monogamy Reading and Follow List

  A. I've personally read all of these and recommend them to anyone in any sort of ENM relationship as these were all recommended to me at some time or another over the years: The Ethical Slut by Janet Hardy  Polysecure by Jessica Fern More Than Two   by Franklin Veaux Polyamory and Jealousy : More that Two Essentials Guide   I Hate You Don't Leave Me by Jerald J. Kreisman Designer Relationships by Mark Micheals (for all ENM LS) Alpha Female Bible by Michelle Martin (all types of relationships - the healthy kind for the more dominant woman)   Swingers Little Helper by Georiga Fuchs (for swingers) Unfuck Your Intimacy: Using Science for Better Relationship, Sex, and Dating by Faith G Harper PHd. Happy Life in an Open Relationship by Susan Wenzel B.This list I have not personally read but see them mentioned all the time in ENM groups: (I will try to update them as I read them) Building Open Relationships by Liz Powell (geared towards poly and swingers) In...

Make New Friends

During the divorce period people find it really difficult to control their emotions and their feelings. People become increasingly frustrated and fell that they will lose their temper and control easily at any given moment. But you should know that there many people just like them who are going through the same grind and who feel the same way. One may want to opt for therapy to better their control over the ever increasing feelings of anger and annoyance. The therapy may also teach you how to become friends with your mate just for the welfare of your children. You may also want to involve in some sweet talk so that you don’t end up losing more funds then necessary. People prefer to get all these in the past as much as possible and not to waste more time and money than necessary. To still remain friends’ people should follow some civilized mannerisms and behave in a nice way no matter what their differences have been. If you are in a relationship already then just keep the affair in a l...

Surviving a Break Up

  A lot of people tend to take break up seriously. They allow break up to rule their life. This affects their personal and professional relationship in a negative manner. Health of the individual is also affected badly. This is because he/she is unable to cope up with all the stress and mental tension that surrounds him/her as soon as his/her partner declares a breakup or divorce. However, it is imperative to resist from any temptation that will make you go insane about your break up. If there was life before the broken relationship, there can be life after it too. All you require doing is to make some efforts towards getting out of the deep depression you went in. It is natural to go through a rough phase after splitting up with your partner. The emotional ups and downs can be very testing for you. However, it is important to take control of your life as soon as you can. In fact, this should be done way before you get suicidal thoughts due to the break up. There are several things...